Mami Lola: Your ‘wifeandmamavip’

Mami Lola is every fan’s wifeandmamavip — a niche deep diving and learning from!

We recently corresponded with Lola about her work online, and no amount of lede-in text can be an adequate preface for what she had to share. Read on! And “learn on” from a true VIP!

Loyalfans: How did you get started in the industry?

wifeandmamavip: I started in the business originally selling panties on one website, expanding to a few, and eventually started adding more explicit content such as videos. When I heard about the larger platforms, I joined. After two months or so, I decided to throw all of my earnings into promo, and this was the life changer for me.

My business expanded, and, as it grew, so did my earnings and fan base, currently at 71K and 0% creator. I’m nobody special, just a mother of four, out to make the best life for her family. We are ordinary people with extraordinary lives (now). After this growth on my main platform, I decided I needed assistance managing the workload, and I have since expanded onto multiple platforms! Now, LOYALFANS and I plan to make this BIG as well!

It’s certainly different to what I expected! I fully believed it was going to be a little bit of lockdown humor. I didn’t expect it to grow to such a large level, being just your average mum and never having done anything like this before, it was a mixture of lockdown boredom and financial crisis that led to wondering if there was anything in this industry for ME! Turns out, there was, and is, and I absolutely LOVE everything about it! I also didn’t think the workload was going to be so HUGE, behind the scenes of just what you see on a creators platform, is a shed load of admin, promotions, content creating, interacting and much more that goes into the daily workload. But it’s OH so much fun!!

𝐇𝐨𝐰 d𝐨 y𝐨𝐮 k𝐞𝐞𝐩 u𝐩 w𝐢𝐭𝐡 t𝐡𝐞 w𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐟𝐥𝐨𝐰 a𝐧𝐝 d𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬 o𝐟 t𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲’𝐬 i𝐧𝐝𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐲?

I started off doing full 16 hours a day, average, no exaggeration. I did everything — from sexting, content creating and promotions to networking, scheduling, interactions and everything in between. Hiring help to assist with my networking and scheduling content has been a lifesaver for me, personally, it relieves the workload a little and enables me to spend just that bit more time with my family!

Thankfully, I’m a highly organized person and many will call me OCD but in this industry. Organization is KEY to success. I have the same routine every single day starting with responding to DMs and issuing content to fans (tippers / buyers) from whilst I’ve slept. All this occurs before I’ve even gotten out of bed in the mornings!

Then my day goes on with family things, and then I sit down to crack on with more work! Being self employed means that I have the flexibility to do what needs to be done with the family, and I will always ensure the necessary workload bits are done and everything just falls into place. Organisation is KEY TO SUCCESS. Everything about my business is organized from on-hand help, to my content, coded and labeled, with matching lists. Everything has its place, and, routine routine routine!

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 a𝐫𝐞 s𝐨𝐦𝐞 t𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 p𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 t𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 a𝐫𝐞 e𝐚𝐬𝐲 a𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 y𝐨𝐮𝐫 j𝐨𝐛 — b𝐮𝐭 they’re a𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 r𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 c𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠?

Everything!! Haha!! I have had rude “fans” (as we all have) say things such as “I can kind-of see why you call this a business, but really it’s just playing with yourself all day” … OR “this isn’t a business this is just porn” some people have NO idea what goes in to making this industry successful for oneself and they are completely blinded by thinking it’s just like porn-hub where you log in and watch videos. They don’t stop to think about the fact it’s an interactive, get to know the creator, 1-1 personal experience. I always find that my loyal fans LOVE a connection and because I’m highly interactive and love to get to know the people who bother to invest time in me, they WANT to talk to me, they say I’m different to most girls on platforms like these and this is what drives me! I love getting to know my fans and creating a friendship with benefits

Time management is challenging as I mentioned earlier, until a couple weeks ago (10 months into my industry adventures) I did an average of 16 hours per day, 7 days per week this was extremely tiring, I was exhausted daily, and it definitely put strain on the marriage and family as a whole. Managing the workload and delegating work that you are able to, such as admin, is crucial as you grow, else you will burn out and nobody behind the scenes sees this, mental health can be extremely hard to contain when you are in this line of work.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 y𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐅𝐚𝐯𝐨rite f𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 o𝐧 𝐋𝐨𝐲𝐚𝐥𝐟𝐚𝐧𝐬?

Honestly, I LOVE the entire website as a whole — it’s simply amazing. I’ve been on so many platforms in my short time in the industry, and Loyalfans is by far my favorite for layout and features!

I love the layout, I tell everyone how good it is. The fact that there are no website glitches and faults, the simplicity of it all, it’s so EASY to navigate. I love the video store, I love the mass DMs feature and that when you UNSEND a message it disappears from the list rather than stays there in a different color shade to show its unsent. SO much tidier, and I am, after all, an OCD neat-freak.  LOVE IT!

The whole website is a hit, and I cannot wait for it to take off properly for me!

𝐖𝐡𝐨 i𝐬 y𝐨𝐮𝐫 p𝐞𝐞𝐫 m𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫, i𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, o𝐫 s𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 y𝐨𝐮 a𝐝𝐦𝐢𝐫𝐞 o𝐫 r𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 i𝐧 t𝐡𝐞 i𝐧𝐝𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐲?

Without a shadow of a doubt, my girl, AVA HADLEY. She’s ALL of the above to me. I met Ava about 4-5 months ago, originally promoting her on my large, main platform. We found out that we look SO similar people have asked if we are sisters, and we have been told we are doppelgängers Our photos make us laugh because we do this thing with our brows when we take pics, and I have never met ANYONE else who does this. But we do!

She’s like my soul sister, and we just so happened to meet. She’s absolutely my idol, and I love her! She also happens to be A M A Z I N G at what she does. She’s totally a different niche to me, as I’m milf and she’s domme, although I do class myself as a switch, as I love the domme stuff too!

But yeah, as a creator, friend, and model, she’s just AMAZING!

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