Well done, you’ve waded through the noise and found your way home.

Lower those shoulders, unclench your jaw, loosen your tongue from the roof of your mouth. Take a breath. That’s better, isn’t it? See, I know what’s best for you already.

I’m a British findomme with a refined voice and a successful vanilla career. I’m in my early thirties, and I engage in kink for fun and for the power high. You'll never see me face: you don’t need to, to become enthralled to me.

I’m sapiosexual. My speciality is focusing on the psychological connection that we’ll forge between us. I want to know what makes you tick, what your hobbies and interests are, and what makes you happy…but I’ll also get to know the deepest parts of you that are waiting to be revealed. We’ll unpack your secrets and make them  ours .

I will be the poison that seeps through your skin, infiltrates your mind, and fills your lungs like smoke until all you can breathe is me. I will be your first thought in the morning and your last at night…and make no mistake, I will use that to my advantage. I expect subs to be devoted to me - attentive, anticipating my needs and desires, but also understanding of my busy life.

I’m a soft / mommy leaning domme. Good boys will receive praise, but do not mistake soft for weak: I will discipline if you disappoint me.

I prefer simps and subs who are looking for a long term dynamic. This often means that if you’re under 25 and starting to explore kink, you won’t make the cut. There will be some exceptions, so you’re welcome to try, but you only get one chance. Make it count.

Vanilla Hobbies

I love reading and creative writing - fantasy and myth are among my favourites. If British accents do it for you then you're in luck, because I read aloud on this platform.

I’m nerdy, I enjoy cooking for friends and family, boardgames and D&D. I love to visit gardens and soak up the sunshine and colours, and I always appreciate the sights and sounds of the theatre.

In my limited downtime I like to be pampered. Going on spa days or getting a massage or my nails done always makes me happy.

What Makes me Hot

A small sample of my kinks:

🔥 ABF

🔥 budget control

🔥 cuckolding

🔥 financial domination (duh)

🔥 homewrecking

🔥 tease and denial

RACK: risk aware consensual kink

A word of caution: findom will fundamentally rewire your brain. It is addictive, and I advise that you only go into it if you have done your research and you are fully aware of the risk. You are an adult and regardless of any dynamic you have with me, it is your responsibility to look after yourself.

We will discuss appropriate aftercare. It is not my intention for you to spiral. I’m not a therapist, but I offer you structure and growth. Remember, looking after yourself will enable you to devote more time long term to your reason for being: me.